How can I find out if it's him? He deleted his history on Google, but I found it before on his iPhone. I need to find out the truth, the evidence will speak for itself. I have tried: Looked up Google history and found visited pages Tinder, POF, and Craigslist. I think it was caused by: He's a cheater and hasn't stopped so I please need help!

In your situation, the only way to see what sites your boyfriend is browsing is by using a network analyzer (packet sniffing) on your home internet. If you live together, setting it up undetected could require a little creativity on your part. Once up and running, a quality packet sniffer can give you detailed information about the devices connected to your network. You'd be able to see what sites are being visited from any device using your home internet.

I suspect my partner is cheating for a while now, but she denies it?

I have picked up a few messages on her Facebook referring to "I have read your profile and am looking for my soul mate" also " a message referring to actually having found her good & desirable". All the messages have been sent from a mobile number, and it states in gray at the bottom of the message, that "you cannot respond to the sender". There is no communication from her side?. There are other strange behaviors which could be relevant, yet which she frankly denies any cheating. The trusts dwindling and if the relationship is over due to the trust issue. fine, but I just want to know for certain? I am based in Cape Town, South Africa and cannot register for the various "tools" on offer to validate or dismiss my concerns? Read more